Finding a Girlfriend

What does a Woman Want?

There's no way to generalize about what "all women want". Some women are attracted by the strong, protective type. Some women like a quiet poet who will read with them. Some women want an active man who will bike and hike. Some women want a smart guy, to do crossword puzzles with and share long conversations.

However, all women, like all human beings, want someone they will *enjoy* being with. They want to be treated with kindness, to be loved and cared for. They want to be accepted - really accepted - for what they are. Women get more than enough prodding from media and TV to "be thinner" and "be younger" and "be sexier". They want a guy who will let them know they are beautiful - just the way they are.

Always remember: there are no men or women in a good relationship!

What do women want in relationships? What do men want in relationships? It doesn't matter. What does matter? It matters what people want in relationships. Women aren't a mysterious alien race. They're people, just like men. So to all you men out there: if you want to get a girlfriend, and keep her, treat her like a person. If you're with a girl that you can fall in love with and be with forever, you can be open, honest and straightforward about your feelings for her and what you want in a partner, and you can take at face value everything she says or does. If you are truly honest and treat her with respect, and you find that her words and actions are misleading or dishonest, tell her what you would want to hear in that situation. If you let her know it's okay for her to trust you and stop playing games, and she's looking for the same things you are, you'll always have success.

Be Happy

One of the most important things a girl looks for in a guy is that the guy is happy with what he is. I'm not saying EGOSTISTICAL or self satisfied. But very few people in the world want to be around someone who is grumpy, angry and mean all the time. They want to have fun, they want to have a good time. If you are a generally happy person, satisfied with what you have in life, girls will be drawn to that like a magnet. They will want to share in your happiness and be happy too. So instead of looking at the bad side of things, look at the good side. Appreciate the many good qualities you have and cherish the great blessings you have in life. The more content you are with your world, the more likely that others will wish to join you in it.

Bite Her!

Bite her all over making you a girl magnet!

How to get a Date!!

I've seen many guys struggle with finding a girl or even to get a date with one. Its not as hard as you think. No matter what you look like, how much money you make, what car you drive... it DOESNT matter. These are the limiting beliefs that men have and why they cant attract women.

The 1st step in the process is ATTRACTION. Attraction is not only physical. Women are attracted to man of HIGH VALUE. Of course when you go out to meet a woman you must look presentable. HIGH VALUE is demostrated by being interesting, by being confident, by showing that you are goal oriented and that you believe yourself and in your life. Gentlemen... Attraction IS NOT a choice. YOU can trigger a woman's attraction to you by mearly Demnonstrating Higher Value and by having someting in common with her.

So Heres how to get a date
1. Approaching: Approach the woman and begin a conversation...you DONT need some cheesy pickup line. "Hi" works very well.

2. Initiate a conversation: Find something in common. Generally the conversation will flow and even better if it takes tangents and you are both very interested in it.

3. Attraction: Demostrate Higher Value and share the same interests as the woman. She WILL be atrracted to you.

4. Get the Number/Email/Facebook, ect: Either you can go for an Instant Date ie coffee, ect. OR you can exchange informtion. Number is the best way to get a date sometime in the week or the next couple of days. If you dont feel secure about asking for the number (which she will give you) get her Email or other information

5. Go on a Date: Call/Email/Message her and hold at least ONE SOLID CONVERSATION with her to guarantee she will not flake. Set a time and place and have a good time!!

Cheers!!!!

Join a Club

It can be a church group, a charity organization, a hiking team, a toastmasters debate group. Find some sort of group that is large and has both boys and girls in it. That way you can have all sorts of planned events to go to and will be mingling with lots of different people. You'll have guys to talk to to build friendships, and girls to get to know. Because it'll be a friendly group, it'll make it easier for you to talk with the girls and be friends with them.

Just go for it

Sometimes, the best way to ask a girl out is just to remind yourself that you've got not much to lose and a lot to gain.
I'm a personal fan of the 'just try it and see how it goes' attitude as it means you can have lots of confidence simply because you're doing what you want to do! :D
After all, what's the point in wasting good opportunities? You'll only hate yourself later if you had a chance but didn't take it..

Learn to Dance

Learning to dance is just about THE easiest way to find a girlfriend that there is. Any club, any dance, any social event you go to, there are tons of girls dancing and hardly any guys. If you are a guy that has even the slightest idea of how to dance, you will find it extremely easy to meet and be sought after by girls. They are simply thrilled to find that you can even TRY to dance, even a little. And the better you get, the more impressed they are!

love

1 way to get a girlfriend is to ask her out.If she is taller than u and a couple years older than u try asking 1 of her friends to hook u to up.

slow down

don't force her to do anything she dosnt wanna do.

Turn her on

Do stuff that you know that shell get horny for... then later on in bed.

Finding a Boyfriend :

What does a Guy Want?

There's no way to generalize about what "all guys want". Some guys want a gentle caring woman, who will soothe him when he's stressed and massage him when he's tense. Some guys want a strong, athletic woman, who will hike mountains and camp by streams. Some guys want a sophisticated woman who will enjoy fine restaurants and nights at the ballet. Some guys want a fiery, energetic woman who will cheer wildly at football games and drink beer with the guys.

However, all guys, like all human beings, want someone they will *enjoy* being with. They want to be respected for what they know, to be loved and cared for. Sure, they're not perfect. None of us are. And guys are brought up with all sorts of mixed messages about "be strong and silent" and "No wait, cry and be sensitive" and "Men don't cry" and so on. It can be very confusing for them to know WHAT they're supposed to be like. Let your guy be HIMSELF, and however he feels, that it's OK.

Be Friendly

You might not realize it, but many guys are PETRIFIED of talking to a girl. So if the girl seems scary or uninterested, they will run away! Be as friendly as you can be. Smile, be happy, seem open for conversation. Don't go racing from place to place - stroll along slowly, so he has a chance to stop you and talk with you for a moment. Don't sit hunched over, avoiding eye contact. Sit back and smile, looking around the room. If you catch his eye, hold it for a second before you continue looking around.

You need to give guys the impression that you are easy to talk to - and that you will not bite their heads off if they make that scary first step. If a guy DOES start to talk to you, be encouraging. He probably overcame gigantic fears in talking to you - you want him to feel that it was worth it.

Be Happy With Yourself

I know this can be REALLY hard for most girls. You are bombarded with the media showing you that "girls should be stick-thin", "girls should have gigantic breasts", "girls should have flawless skin" and so on. Companies make billions of dollars by convincing every single woman that they are ugly unless they take drastic steps. And the sad part is that we believe these companies.

A guy wants to be with a woman that is HAPPY. If you go around thinking you're flawed and ugly and miserable, that is not appealing to any guy. But if you accept that you are what you are, and that you're rather content with that, your happiness will radiate out and be pretty obvious to those who meet you. They'll see you being happy - and want to share in it.

None of us are perfect. We are all human. So be happy with your unique human features, and show off your best trait. We all have something that we're proud of - or at least reasonably OK with. You're sure to meet a guy who is fond of that sort of trait, and who is drawn to your smile.

Be truthful

Don't lie about yourself. Tell the guy about the real you and don't make up things. Sooner or later they would probably find out and might not be as interested in you.

Don't be shy

You may think guys are always full of bravery and will be the ones to ask you out, but that's not necessarily true. Many guys are shy around girls, and nervous of making a mistake and sounding stupid.

Don't be afraid to talk to a guy you like. If you talk to him a bit, you may find he'll feel a bit more comfortable with you, and have the bravery to ask you out.

Don't play hard to get.

Don't play hard to get. If you eep playing hard to get, He'll get tired and give up. Just be easy on him, nut not too east.

Don't Wait

Don't wait until he has another girlfriend. You have to step in and say that you like him. If you don't then you may never have the chance to date.

Get to know him

Try not to be shy and ask him what he likes and what he doesn't like. If you don't get the chance to talk to him, talk to one of his friends and ask about him.You'll be surprised what you get out of it.( Believe me, Had my own experience from it)

MAKE HIM JEALOUS!

we are all jealous! jealousy can cause a lot of emotional pain. make him feel like he lost everything he once had. date other guys and make him see you. remember if u can see him. he can see you.