Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Where to Meet

Choosing a Movie to see

Dinner and a movie is a classic, but what movie should you see? Stick to something low key. I remember the first date I had with a guy I *really* liked - he took me to see Dolores Clairborne, about a woman being abused. This brought back all sorts of really unpleasant childhood memories, and I was almost shaking when we left. I was so uncomfortable for the rest of the date that we never talked again, even though under other circumstances I would have really liked this guy.

Choose something light and fun for the first date. You want something that encourages conversation and happiness. You can get into darker stuff later on.


Comfort Zone

Go to a place where you two feel most comfortable at because if u go somewhere uncomfortable it'll probably make ur date really really bad.


Dinner & A Movie - the order

What a classic combination! I´ve always gone to the movie first with my date, and then had a late dinner. Why? Because dinner should be a laid back, relaxed thing where you aren´t trying to stuff yourself to get to the movie in time. The meal is the place that you get to know each other.

So go to the movie first, and when you´re done, find a nice restaurant to settle down in. Sit and enjoy the meal, order dessert and coffee. Spend the time relaxed, knowing there is


Meet Somewhere Simple

you and your guy don't have to spend money to hang out and have a good time. meet somewhere simple like the beach or a park overlooking the city. it gives you a chance to relax and have nice conversation..and just get to know eachother better!!


take him home

If u wanna have a great balance of sexual/sensitve side w/h ur boyfriend then take him home.....but don't let him go all the way unless u guys r ready or past that level.....talk to him in a soothing voice calm ,low kind he'll open up more but make sure u don't use that voice while he's making a joke when he does that be amused laugh-but giggle......be soft,understanding,don't play TOO much of hard to get



How to Date : After the Date

Appreciation

Tell her(preferably by text)that you had a good time with her.keep it short.i promise she'l like to know you more


Call Within 2 Days

A lot of times when people go on dates they wait a few days before making a follow up call, because they don´t want to seem too "eager". If someone called you every 5 minutes to ask how you were doing, you might think he (or she) didn´t have a life and was desperate, and that isn´t a positive image to be giving out.

On the other hand, waiting just "because" if you really enjoyed yourself is really silly. Why torment the other person for days and days? If you had fun, call and say thank you. You don´t have to say "Let´s date again on XXX day," just say you had fun and you´ll stay in touch. If you didn´t enjoy yourself, call anyway, say thanks for the evening. Leave it at that.

It´s ALWAYS better to be honest than to lead someone on for weeks and weeks. Call within 2 days to let the other person know what to expect.


Do not rush things with her

To really make a date work out successful, I'll like to advice that you should be very patient - these comprises the way you discuss with her, and donot give false anecdote about yourself and be very natural!


Dont Tell Him You Love Him

I know because I did and It made my guy leave. You see guys want to have fun not feel tied in. If the guy loves you he will say it first. It really freaks them out especially if you say it to them after the first date! So wait and the relationship will last longer.


Tell him you love him!

Guys love it when you let them know how they feel - when you say goodbye to him, add in a simple "I love you!" to let him know you.. do! =P
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well good luck!


The Girl Can Call

If you´re a girl, there´s nothing that says it´s the guy who has to do the second call. Most women I know make the second call because they´re too busy to sit around waiting for a guy to get up the nerve. Don´t just sit by the phone, call up to say thanks and to see what the next step is.


Waiting for a Call

What if you´re waiting for a call? Be patient. Sometimes people wait a week or more before calling back to say they want to date again.

Also, sometimes people really do lose phone numbers!! I know I´ve done it. Give it a few days, and then call yourself to see how things stand.

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Kissing Tips and Techniques

First Kisses

Are you preparing for your first kiss? Here are suggestions to get you going.

Major Turn On!!!

Alright this 1 is for girls, One day at school i was with this guy that i liked at the time and when it was time to go to class he tried to just give me a hug and leave(now that just wasn't cuttin it for me) so as he was starting to walk off i turned him around by his arm half aggresively and gently and said "you can't get away from me that easily" then i pulled him close to me grabbed him by the shirt then held on to his belt buckle and we had the most passtionate french kiss of both of our lives!!! We were both talking about how great it was for days

you just cant be scared if you want it go after it! If you are scared then it will never work for you the way you want it to.

The best kiss ever!(for guys)

lay her oh a bed,couch etc get ontop of her and make her feel safe then gently lick or peck her hot spots e.g neck, stummach, ear after that give her a sweet kiss on the lips(mouth closed) lift your head up and look her in the eyes and tell her something like "i love you!" softly and sweetly, after begin a slow processing of frech kissing, pick the pace up after a while and repeat kissing hot spots over and over, this will give you gil one thing to remember and soemthing never to forget. And hey if she lkes it that much maybe she'll do the same to you ;)

- Turning a Man on -

When you are lying down, slide your hand up your mans top, lightly roam your hand around his stomach, then move up to his chest.

!!!for all teens!!!

go for it... whatever you wanna do go for it, cuz if you dont, youre always gonna wonder what couldve happened... to set the mood watch a horror movie, and get close to them(ur bf/gf/or crush) and then watch a chick flick

( for boys)wild thing

boys when its your first kiss don`t be scared the girl is the one that should be scared.just hold her hand or put your arm around her then just say look at me and make sure your breath smells good. when she lokks at you just say ready and than go for it.my boyfriend hasnt kissed me yet and were ready cause weve been going out for about 7 months.

(GUY TIP)

when your with your girlfriend and shes kissing your neck. Run your hands down her back, in a somewhat of a cirlce motion, if you want run your hands down her sides too, then place your hands in her back pockets (if she has some) that'll make her wanna get closer. or at least it made me wanna get closer to my guy

*kissing for the first time at the movies*

This tip is for experienced and new couples.
1) When you are sitting next to each other, lift up the arm rest (if you can), and rest your head on his/her sholder and wait for them to do the same

2)**girls
place your hand on their chest and start to trace their coler bone, then their neck, then their jaw bone, then pull their chin in for the kiss

**guys
pick up one of their hands, and start tracing their fingers, rist, arm, coler bone, jaw, then when you reach their lips, touch them lightly, then pull them in from under thechin for the kiss


this kiss can be a light peck, to a french kiss
to me, its very romantic

~*Shot Gun *~

Here is a fun little game you can play if you and your sweatheart smoke....

HERES WHAT YOU DO ;)
1.)Take a poof of your ciggaret
2.)Exhaul it in your loved one's mouth & as they inhaul it Give a gentle kiss for a moment on their lips

For best results try it with a menthal or marlboro smooths for a refreshing sensation... It's fun and it's very playful

A Romantic Environment

A Romantic Environment

Set up your world to encourage romance, and you will see it blossom before your eyes!


Keep eye contact

Always look at your crush and dont look away when u see him looking at u .stare into his eyes with love and give a slight smile

love is in the air

i think love is incrediddble it makes u be awake all night, and it daunts u in ur slep its makes u steamy red and piping oh my ears burn ofg heat do u think guys ur views on this all matter.

poetry

you should write poetry to your partner coming from you not being copied from a book that will make your partner feel great

resolving issues

never go to bed angry at each other,always try to work things out before bedtime