Wednesday, August 27, 2008

How to Date : After the Date

Appreciation

Tell her(preferably by text)that you had a good time with her.keep it short.i promise she'l like to know you more


Call Within 2 Days

A lot of times when people go on dates they wait a few days before making a follow up call, because they don´t want to seem too "eager". If someone called you every 5 minutes to ask how you were doing, you might think he (or she) didn´t have a life and was desperate, and that isn´t a positive image to be giving out.

On the other hand, waiting just "because" if you really enjoyed yourself is really silly. Why torment the other person for days and days? If you had fun, call and say thank you. You don´t have to say "Let´s date again on XXX day," just say you had fun and you´ll stay in touch. If you didn´t enjoy yourself, call anyway, say thanks for the evening. Leave it at that.

It´s ALWAYS better to be honest than to lead someone on for weeks and weeks. Call within 2 days to let the other person know what to expect.


Do not rush things with her

To really make a date work out successful, I'll like to advice that you should be very patient - these comprises the way you discuss with her, and donot give false anecdote about yourself and be very natural!


Dont Tell Him You Love Him

I know because I did and It made my guy leave. You see guys want to have fun not feel tied in. If the guy loves you he will say it first. It really freaks them out especially if you say it to them after the first date! So wait and the relationship will last longer.


Tell him you love him!

Guys love it when you let them know how they feel - when you say goodbye to him, add in a simple "I love you!" to let him know you.. do! =P
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well good luck!


The Girl Can Call

If you´re a girl, there´s nothing that says it´s the guy who has to do the second call. Most women I know make the second call because they´re too busy to sit around waiting for a guy to get up the nerve. Don´t just sit by the phone, call up to say thanks and to see what the next step is.


Waiting for a Call

What if you´re waiting for a call? Be patient. Sometimes people wait a week or more before calling back to say they want to date again.

Also, sometimes people really do lose phone numbers!! I know I´ve done it. Give it a few days, and then call yourself to see how things stand.

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