Where to Meet

Choosing a Movie to see

Dinner and a movie is a classic, but what movie should you see? Stick to something low key. I remember the first date I had with a guy I *really* liked - he took me to see Dolores Clairborne, about a woman being abused. This brought back all sorts of really unpleasant childhood memories, and I was almost shaking when we left. I was so uncomfortable for the rest of the date that we never talked again, even though under other circumstances I would have really liked this guy.

Choose something light and fun for the first date. You want something that encourages conversation and happiness. You can get into darker stuff later on.

Comfort Zone

Go to a place where you two feel most comfortable at because if u go somewhere uncomfortable it'll probably make ur date really really bad.

Dinner & A Movie - the order

What a classic combination! I´ve always gone to the movie first with my date, and then had a late dinner. Why? Because dinner should be a laid back, relaxed thing where you aren´t trying to stuff yourself to get to the movie in time. The meal is the place that you get to know each other.

So go to the movie first, and when you´re done, find a nice restaurant to settle down in. Sit and enjoy the meal, order dessert and coffee. Spend the time relaxed, knowing there is

Meet Somewhere Simple

you and your guy don't have to spend money to hang out and have a good time. meet somewhere simple like the beach or a park overlooking the city. it gives you a chance to relax and have nice conversation..and just get to know eachother better!!

take him home

If u wanna have a great balance of sexual/sensitve side w/h ur boyfriend then take him home.....but don't let him go all the way unless u guys r ready or past that level.....talk to him in a soothing voice calm ,low kind he'll open up more but make sure u don't use that voice while he's making a joke when he does that be amused laugh-but giggle......be soft,understanding,don't play TOO much of hard to get