Finding a Girlfriend

What does a Woman Want?

There's no way to generalize about what "all women want". Some women are attracted by the strong, protective type. Some women like a quiet poet who will read with them. Some women want an active man who will bike and hike. Some women want a smart guy, to do crossword puzzles with and share long conversations.

However, all women, like all human beings, want someone they will *enjoy* being with. They want to be treated with kindness, to be loved and cared for. They want to be accepted - really accepted - for what they are. Women get more than enough prodding from media and TV to "be thinner" and "be younger" and "be sexier". They want a guy who will let them know they are beautiful - just the way they are.

Always remember: there are no men or women in a good relationship!

What do women want in relationships? What do men want in relationships? It doesn't matter. What does matter? It matters what people want in relationships. Women aren't a mysterious alien race. They're people, just like men. So to all you men out there: if you want to get a girlfriend, and keep her, treat her like a person. If you're with a girl that you can fall in love with and be with forever, you can be open, honest and straightforward about your feelings for her and what you want in a partner, and you can take at face value everything she says or does. If you are truly honest and treat her with respect, and you find that her words and actions are misleading or dishonest, tell her what you would want to hear in that situation. If you let her know it's okay for her to trust you and stop playing games, and she's looking for the same things you are, you'll always have success.

Be Happy

One of the most important things a girl looks for in a guy is that the guy is happy with what he is. I'm not saying EGOSTISTICAL or self satisfied. But very few people in the world want to be around someone who is grumpy, angry and mean all the time. They want to have fun, they want to have a good time. If you are a generally happy person, satisfied with what you have in life, girls will be drawn to that like a magnet. They will want to share in your happiness and be happy too. So instead of looking at the bad side of things, look at the good side. Appreciate the many good qualities you have and cherish the great blessings you have in life. The more content you are with your world, the more likely that others will wish to join you in it.

Bite Her!

Bite her all over making you a girl magnet!

How to get a Date!!

I've seen many guys struggle with finding a girl or even to get a date with one. Its not as hard as you think. No matter what you look like, how much money you make, what car you drive... it DOESNT matter. These are the limiting beliefs that men have and why they cant attract women.

The 1st step in the process is ATTRACTION. Attraction is not only physical. Women are attracted to man of HIGH VALUE. Of course when you go out to meet a woman you must look presentable. HIGH VALUE is demostrated by being interesting, by being confident, by showing that you are goal oriented and that you believe yourself and in your life. Gentlemen... Attraction IS NOT a choice. YOU can trigger a woman's attraction to you by mearly Demnonstrating Higher Value and by having someting in common with her.

So Heres how to get a date
1. Approaching: Approach the woman and begin a conversation...you DONT need some cheesy pickup line. "Hi" works very well.

2. Initiate a conversation: Find something in common. Generally the conversation will flow and even better if it takes tangents and you are both very interested in it.

3. Attraction: Demostrate Higher Value and share the same interests as the woman. She WILL be atrracted to you.

4. Get the Number/Email/Facebook, ect: Either you can go for an Instant Date ie coffee, ect. OR you can exchange informtion. Number is the best way to get a date sometime in the week or the next couple of days. If you dont feel secure about asking for the number (which she will give you) get her Email or other information

5. Go on a Date: Call/Email/Message her and hold at least ONE SOLID CONVERSATION with her to guarantee she will not flake. Set a time and place and have a good time!!

Cheers!!!!

Join a Club

It can be a church group, a charity organization, a hiking team, a toastmasters debate group. Find some sort of group that is large and has both boys and girls in it. That way you can have all sorts of planned events to go to and will be mingling with lots of different people. You'll have guys to talk to to build friendships, and girls to get to know. Because it'll be a friendly group, it'll make it easier for you to talk with the girls and be friends with them.

Just go for it

Sometimes, the best way to ask a girl out is just to remind yourself that you've got not much to lose and a lot to gain.
I'm a personal fan of the 'just try it and see how it goes' attitude as it means you can have lots of confidence simply because you're doing what you want to do! :D
After all, what's the point in wasting good opportunities? You'll only hate yourself later if you had a chance but didn't take it..

Learn to Dance

Learning to dance is just about THE easiest way to find a girlfriend that there is. Any club, any dance, any social event you go to, there are tons of girls dancing and hardly any guys. If you are a guy that has even the slightest idea of how to dance, you will find it extremely easy to meet and be sought after by girls. They are simply thrilled to find that you can even TRY to dance, even a little. And the better you get, the more impressed they are!

love

1 way to get a girlfriend is to ask her out.If she is taller than u and a couple years older than u try asking 1 of her friends to hook u to up.

slow down

don't force her to do anything she dosnt wanna do.

Turn her on

Do stuff that you know that shell get horny for... then later on in bed.

Finding a Boyfriend :

What does a Guy Want?

There's no way to generalize about what "all guys want". Some guys want a gentle caring woman, who will soothe him when he's stressed and massage him when he's tense. Some guys want a strong, athletic woman, who will hike mountains and camp by streams. Some guys want a sophisticated woman who will enjoy fine restaurants and nights at the ballet. Some guys want a fiery, energetic woman who will cheer wildly at football games and drink beer with the guys.

However, all guys, like all human beings, want someone they will *enjoy* being with. They want to be respected for what they know, to be loved and cared for. Sure, they're not perfect. None of us are. And guys are brought up with all sorts of mixed messages about "be strong and silent" and "No wait, cry and be sensitive" and "Men don't cry" and so on. It can be very confusing for them to know WHAT they're supposed to be like. Let your guy be HIMSELF, and however he feels, that it's OK.

Be Friendly

You might not realize it, but many guys are PETRIFIED of talking to a girl. So if the girl seems scary or uninterested, they will run away! Be as friendly as you can be. Smile, be happy, seem open for conversation. Don't go racing from place to place - stroll along slowly, so he has a chance to stop you and talk with you for a moment. Don't sit hunched over, avoiding eye contact. Sit back and smile, looking around the room. If you catch his eye, hold it for a second before you continue looking around.

You need to give guys the impression that you are easy to talk to - and that you will not bite their heads off if they make that scary first step. If a guy DOES start to talk to you, be encouraging. He probably overcame gigantic fears in talking to you - you want him to feel that it was worth it.

Be Happy With Yourself

I know this can be REALLY hard for most girls. You are bombarded with the media showing you that "girls should be stick-thin", "girls should have gigantic breasts", "girls should have flawless skin" and so on. Companies make billions of dollars by convincing every single woman that they are ugly unless they take drastic steps. And the sad part is that we believe these companies.

A guy wants to be with a woman that is HAPPY. If you go around thinking you're flawed and ugly and miserable, that is not appealing to any guy. But if you accept that you are what you are, and that you're rather content with that, your happiness will radiate out and be pretty obvious to those who meet you. They'll see you being happy - and want to share in it.

None of us are perfect. We are all human. So be happy with your unique human features, and show off your best trait. We all have something that we're proud of - or at least reasonably OK with. You're sure to meet a guy who is fond of that sort of trait, and who is drawn to your smile.

Be truthful

Don't lie about yourself. Tell the guy about the real you and don't make up things. Sooner or later they would probably find out and might not be as interested in you.

Don't be shy

You may think guys are always full of bravery and will be the ones to ask you out, but that's not necessarily true. Many guys are shy around girls, and nervous of making a mistake and sounding stupid.

Don't be afraid to talk to a guy you like. If you talk to him a bit, you may find he'll feel a bit more comfortable with you, and have the bravery to ask you out.

Don't play hard to get.

Don't play hard to get. If you eep playing hard to get, He'll get tired and give up. Just be easy on him, nut not too east.

Don't Wait

Don't wait until he has another girlfriend. You have to step in and say that you like him. If you don't then you may never have the chance to date.

Get to know him

Try not to be shy and ask him what he likes and what he doesn't like. If you don't get the chance to talk to him, talk to one of his friends and ask about him.You'll be surprised what you get out of it.( Believe me, Had my own experience from it)

MAKE HIM JEALOUS!

we are all jealous! jealousy can cause a lot of emotional pain. make him feel like he lost everything he once had. date other guys and make him see you. remember if u can see him. he can see you.

Where to Meet

Choosing a Movie to see

Dinner and a movie is a classic, but what movie should you see? Stick to something low key. I remember the first date I had with a guy I *really* liked - he took me to see Dolores Clairborne, about a woman being abused. This brought back all sorts of really unpleasant childhood memories, and I was almost shaking when we left. I was so uncomfortable for the rest of the date that we never talked again, even though under other circumstances I would have really liked this guy.

Choose something light and fun for the first date. You want something that encourages conversation and happiness. You can get into darker stuff later on.

Comfort Zone

Go to a place where you two feel most comfortable at because if u go somewhere uncomfortable it'll probably make ur date really really bad.

Dinner & A Movie - the order

What a classic combination! I´ve always gone to the movie first with my date, and then had a late dinner. Why? Because dinner should be a laid back, relaxed thing where you aren´t trying to stuff yourself to get to the movie in time. The meal is the place that you get to know each other.

So go to the movie first, and when you´re done, find a nice restaurant to settle down in. Sit and enjoy the meal, order dessert and coffee. Spend the time relaxed, knowing there is

Meet Somewhere Simple

you and your guy don't have to spend money to hang out and have a good time. meet somewhere simple like the beach or a park overlooking the city. it gives you a chance to relax and have nice conversation..and just get to know eachother better!!

take him home

If u wanna have a great balance of sexual/sensitve side w/h ur boyfriend then take him home.....but don't let him go all the way unless u guys r ready or past that level.....talk to him in a soothing voice calm ,low kind he'll open up more but make sure u don't use that voice while he's making a joke when he does that be amused laugh-but giggle......be soft,understanding,don't play TOO much of hard to get

How to Date : After the Date

Appreciation

Tell her(preferably by text)that you had a good time with her.keep it short.i promise she'l like to know you more

Call Within 2 Days

A lot of times when people go on dates they wait a few days before making a follow up call, because they don´t want to seem too "eager". If someone called you every 5 minutes to ask how you were doing, you might think he (or she) didn´t have a life and was desperate, and that isn´t a positive image to be giving out.

On the other hand, waiting just "because" if you really enjoyed yourself is really silly. Why torment the other person for days and days? If you had fun, call and say thank you. You don´t have to say "Let´s date again on XXX day," just say you had fun and you´ll stay in touch. If you didn´t enjoy yourself, call anyway, say thanks for the evening. Leave it at that.

It´s ALWAYS better to be honest than to lead someone on for weeks and weeks. Call within 2 days to let the other person know what to expect.

Do not rush things with her

To really make a date work out successful, I'll like to advice that you should be very patient - these comprises the way you discuss with her, and donot give false anecdote about yourself and be very natural!

Dont Tell Him You Love Him

I know because I did and It made my guy leave. You see guys want to have fun not feel tied in. If the guy loves you he will say it first. It really freaks them out especially if you say it to them after the first date! So wait and the relationship will last longer.

Tell him you love him!

Guys love it when you let them know how they feel - when you say goodbye to him, add in a simple "I love you!" to let him know you.. do! =P
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well good luck!

The Girl Can Call

If you´re a girl, there´s nothing that says it´s the guy who has to do the second call. Most women I know make the second call because they´re too busy to sit around waiting for a guy to get up the nerve. Don´t just sit by the phone, call up to say thanks and to see what the next step is.

Waiting for a Call

What if you´re waiting for a call? Be patient. Sometimes people wait a week or more before calling back to say they want to date again.

Also, sometimes people really do lose phone numbers!! I know I´ve done it. Give it a few days, and then call yourself to see how things stand.

Kissing Tips and Techniques

First Kisses

Are you preparing for your first kiss? Here are suggestions to get you going.

Major Turn On!!!

Alright this 1 is for girls, One day at school i was with this guy that i liked at the time and when it was time to go to class he tried to just give me a hug and leave(now that just wasn't cuttin it for me) so as he was starting to walk off i turned him around by his arm half aggresively and gently and said "you can't get away from me that easily" then i pulled him close to me grabbed him by the shirt then held on to his belt buckle and we had the most passtionate french kiss of both of our lives!!! We were both talking about how great it was for days

you just cant be scared if you want it go after it! If you are scared then it will never work for you the way you want it to.

The best kiss ever!(for guys)

lay her oh a bed,couch etc get ontop of her and make her feel safe then gently lick or peck her hot spots e.g neck, stummach, ear after that give her a sweet kiss on the lips(mouth closed) lift your head up and look her in the eyes and tell her something like "i love you!" softly and sweetly, after begin a slow processing of frech kissing, pick the pace up after a while and repeat kissing hot spots over and over, this will give you gil one thing to remember and soemthing never to forget. And hey if she lkes it that much maybe she'll do the same to you ;)

- Turning a Man on -

When you are lying down, slide your hand up your mans top, lightly roam your hand around his stomach, then move up to his chest.

!!!for all teens!!!

go for it... whatever you wanna do go for it, cuz if you dont, youre always gonna wonder what couldve happened... to set the mood watch a horror movie, and get close to them(ur bf/gf/or crush) and then watch a chick flick

( for boys)wild thing

boys when its your first kiss don`t be scared the girl is the one that should be scared.just hold her hand or put your arm around her then just say look at me and make sure your breath smells good. when she lokks at you just say ready and than go for it.my boyfriend hasnt kissed me yet and were ready cause weve been going out for about 7 months.

(GUY TIP)

when your with your girlfriend and shes kissing your neck. Run your hands down her back, in a somewhat of a cirlce motion, if you want run your hands down her sides too, then place your hands in her back pockets (if she has some) that'll make her wanna get closer. or at least it made me wanna get closer to my guy

*kissing for the first time at the movies*

This tip is for experienced and new couples.
1) When you are sitting next to each other, lift up the arm rest (if you can), and rest your head on his/her sholder and wait for them to do the same

2)**girls
place your hand on their chest and start to trace their coler bone, then their neck, then their jaw bone, then pull their chin in for the kiss

**guys
pick up one of their hands, and start tracing their fingers, rist, arm, coler bone, jaw, then when you reach their lips, touch them lightly, then pull them in from under thechin for the kiss


this kiss can be a light peck, to a french kiss
to me, its very romantic

~*Shot Gun *~

Here is a fun little game you can play if you and your sweatheart smoke....

HERES WHAT YOU DO ;)
1.)Take a poof of your ciggaret
2.)Exhaul it in your loved one's mouth & as they inhaul it Give a gentle kiss for a moment on their lips

For best results try it with a menthal or marlboro smooths for a refreshing sensation... It's fun and it's very playful

A Romantic Environment

A Romantic Environment

Set up your world to encourage romance, and you will see it blossom before your eyes!

Keep eye contact

Always look at your crush and dont look away when u see him looking at u .stare into his eyes with love and give a slight smile

love is in the air

i think love is incrediddble it makes u be awake all night, and it daunts u in ur slep its makes u steamy red and piping oh my ears burn ofg heat do u think guys ur views on this all matter.

poetry

you should write poetry to your partner coming from you not being copied from a book that will make your partner feel great

resolving issues

never go to bed angry at each other,always try to work things out before bedtime